Labor of Love
Why a Holiday Weekend Wedding Works
Marriage is hard work—so why not kick it off on Labor Day weekend?
It’s the one holiday that practically begs for a celebration of commitment, teamwork, and maybe a little sweat equity. Whether you're planning a backyard bash or a black-tie affair, Labor Day offers the perfect blend of summer warmth and long-weekend ease.
But Labor Day isn’t the only holiday worth considering. From the sparkle of New Year’s Eve to the cozy charm of Thanksgiving, holiday weekends come with built-in perks: extra time for guests to travel, themed decor that practically designs itself, and anniversaries that are impossible to forget.
Here’s a look at why holiday weekend weddings might be the perfect fit for your big day—and which ones to consider.
Labor Day Weekend: End-of-Summer Bliss
Labor Day weekend is a sweet spot on the calendar for couples looking to tie the knot with sunshine, style, and a little extra breathing room. The weather is typically warm but not oppressively hot, making it ideal for outdoor ceremonies, garden receptions, or lakeside vows. Guests benefit from the long weekend too—having Monday off means they can travel without rushing, enjoy the festivities more fully, and recover before heading back to work. This extra time also opens the door for multi-day celebrations, like welcome dinners, farewell brunches, or even a casual post-wedding BBQ.
For couples, choosing Labor Day weekend as their wedding date can also make future anniversaries easier to celebrate. With the holiday often falling near the same time each year, it’s a built-in excuse for a romantic getaway or a yearly tradition. It’s also a date that’s easy to remember, which is a bonus for anyone who’s a little calendar-challenged.
However, it’s worth noting that travel costs can be higher due to holiday demand, and popular destinations may be crowded with tourists. Some guests may also have longstanding Labor Day plans, like family reunions or camping trips, which could affect attendance. That said, with early planning and clear communication, most of these challenges can be managed.
To make the most of the weekend, lean into the Americana vibe with playful touches like lawn games, lemonade stands, picnic-style menus, and a sparkler send-off. It’s a chance to blend laid-back charm with heartfelt celebration—perfect for couples who want their wedding to feel like a joyful, shared experience rather than a formal affair.
New Year’s Eve: Glamour & Fireworks
If you’re dreaming of a wedding that feels more like a red carpet event than a rustic gathering, New Year’s Eve might be your perfect date. With its built-in party atmosphere, NYE weddings come pre-loaded with excitement, sparkle, and a sense of anticipation. Guests are already in celebration mode, dressed to impress and ready to toast to new beginnings—so why not make your wedding part of the countdown?
One of the most unforgettable moments of a New Year’s Eve wedding is the midnight kiss. Imagine sealing your vows with a champagne toast and a kiss as the clock strikes twelve, surrounded by fireworks, confetti, and cheers. It’s cinematic, romantic, and undeniably memorable. Plus, your anniversary will always be tied to a night of celebration, making future years easy to honor with a night out or a cozy countdown at home.
However, there are a few things to keep in mind. NYE weddings often run late into the night, which means you’ll need to plan for extended venue hours, transportation options for guests, and possibly higher costs for vendors working on a holiday. Some guests may also have long-standing New Year’s traditions or prefer to spend the evening with family, so RSVPs might be a little trickier.
To make the most of the night, lean into the glam. Think champagne towers, metallic decor, candlelit tables, and a dance floor that stays packed until the ball drops. A countdown to your first kiss as newlyweds is the kind of moment people will talk about for years—and it’s a dazzling way to start your life together.
Thanksgiving Weekend: Cozy & Family-Focused
If your dream wedding leans more toward cozy gatherings than grand galas, Thanksgiving weekend might be the perfect time to say “I do.” With family already gathered and the spirit of gratitude in the air, it’s a naturally intimate and heartfelt time to celebrate love. The fall season brings rich colors, crisp air, and a sense of togetherness that’s hard to replicate—making it ideal for rustic venues, candlelit receptions, and comfort food menus that feel like a warm hug.
One of the biggest benefits of a Thanksgiving weekend wedding is the emotional tone. Guests are already in a reflective, thankful mood, which adds depth to the celebration. Plus, many people have time off work, making travel easier and allowing for multi-day festivities like rehearsal dinners, brunches, or even a casual Friendsgiving-style gathering before the big day.
That said, there are a few things to consider. Travel can be expensive and unpredictable during Thanksgiving, and weather varies widely depending on your location. Some guests may prefer to stick to their traditional family plans, so it’s important to communicate early and be flexible with your guest list. Hosting your wedding on the Friday or Saturday after Thanksgiving is a smart move—it avoids competing with the holiday meal and gives guests time to settle in.
To make the most of the weekend, embrace the season with fall florals, warm lighting, and a menu that celebrates comfort and connection. And if you really want to lean into the theme, consider serving pie instead of cake—pumpkin, pecan, or apple slices are sure to be a hit and add a charming, homespun touch to your celebration.
Christmas Weekend: Magical & Meaningful
A Christmas wedding is like stepping into a snow globe—romantic, cozy, and filled with wonder. For couples who love the holiday season, getting married around Christmas can feel like the ultimate celebration of love, family, and tradition. The decor practically designs itself: twinkling lights, evergreen garlands, rich reds and golds, and maybe even a dusting of snow to complete the scene. It’s a time of year when people are already feeling sentimental and connected, which adds emotional depth to your ceremony and reception.
One of the biggest benefits of a Christmas weekend wedding is the built-in sense of magic. Guests are often in a festive mood, and the holiday spirit can elevate everything from your vows to your dance floor. It’s also a great time for destination weddings in snowy locales or cozy mountain lodges, where fireplaces, hot cocoa bars, and winter-themed cocktails create a warm and inviting atmosphere.
However, Christmas weddings do come with a few challenges. Travel can be expensive and complicated, especially with winter weather and packed airports. Guests may have longstanding family traditions or religious commitments, so attendance could be limited. Vendors may also charge holiday premiums or have limited availability, so early planning is essential.
To make the most of a Christmas wedding, consider hosting it just before or after the holiday itself—like the weekend before Christmas Eve or between Christmas and New Year’s. This gives guests flexibility while still capturing the seasonal magic. Incorporate holiday touches like ornament favors, carolers, or a tree-decorating station, and don’t be afraid to swap traditional cake for a dessert table filled with holiday treats.
Memorial Day Weekend: Spring into Marriage
Memorial Day weekend offers couples a beautiful blend of seasonal charm and practical perks. As the unofficial start of summer, it’s a time when flowers are blooming, the weather is warming up, and people are ready to shake off the winter blues. For weddings, this means lush garden venues, pastel palettes, and fresh, seasonal menus that feel light and celebratory. It’s also a great time for outdoor ceremonies, rooftop receptions, or even destination weddings in scenic springtime locations.
One of the biggest advantages of a Memorial Day wedding is the long weekend itself. Guests typically have Monday off, which makes travel easier and allows for extended celebrations. You can plan a full weekend of events—from a welcome cocktail hour to a farewell brunch—without asking guests to take extra time off work. It’s also a great way to kick off the summer with a joyful, love-filled gathering.
However, there are a few things to keep in mind. Depending on your location, late May can be unpredictable weather-wise, with the possibility of spring showers. Travel and accommodations may also be in high demand, especially in popular vacation spots. And while Memorial Day is a festive time, it’s also a solemn holiday for many, so it’s important to be sensitive to its meaning and avoid overshadowing it with too much extravagance.
To make the most of a Memorial Day wedding, embrace the season with floral-forward decor, light and refreshing food options, and a relaxed, joyful vibe. Think garden games, lemonade stations, and breezy attire. A Sunday wedding followed by a laid-back Monday brunch is a great way to stretch the celebration and send guests home with full hearts and happy memories.
Ready to Say “I Do” on a Holiday Weekend?
Whether you're dreaming of a sparkler-lit Labor Day ceremony, a glamorous New Year’s Eve bash, or a cozy Thanksgiving gathering, holiday weekend weddings offer something truly special. They’re festive, memorable, and full of opportunities to make your celebration reflect the season—and your love story.
No matter which holiday you choose, Rev. Benny is here to make sure your wedding service is absolutely perfect. From crafting heartfelt vows to setting the tone for your ceremony, he’ll tailor every detail to match the mood, meaning, and magic of your chosen date.
Contact Rev. Benny today for a free consultation and let him help you create a wedding service that’s as unforgettable as the holiday itself. Love may be a labor—but your
